Hey Birthing Project friends and fam! It’s been a hot, busy summer here in Tupelo, and we’ve been cooking up some content to keep you up-to-date with the latest news from our community.
This blog post about community birthworkers came across our Facebook feed this morning, and it is our everything right now:
I met a Bronx momma one Sunday to check in. We had a prenatal visit in her car one afternoon by a park. Reclining her driver seat back, I asked if I could touch her growing belly. I felt for baby’s back and head, showed her where and how to feel for them. She told me about this ache near her groin; I explained about the ligaments that support the uterus and how normally they aren’t stretched the way they are in pregnancy, that this can cause some pain but it’s normal. I kept touching her belly and my hands went instinctively to where it ached, massaging. I kept talking to momma about birth and that I understood why she was scared of the pain and gave her some advice about taking the last couple of weeks to disconnect from everything and focus on the last precious moments of having her child this close to her. I saw the tears. I heard the all-too common statement that rarely does she receive attention and touch in this way. I think about her and how she is one of many women who would not have this moment if it weren’t for community doula grants and organizations that advocate for every woman, regardless of finances.
You can read more at These Waters Run Deep–and trust us, you’ll want to read more. A true feeling of community and support makes a difference in the world of birth and breastfeeding–instead of rushing to give advice to a new mother, could you try more listening? Ask open questions and see what’s on her mind. That’s a good way to show someone that you care.